Birth date: Jul 19, 1956 Death date: Mar 14, 2026
Betty Jo Martin 69, of Fall River, KS, passed away on Saturday, March 14, 2026, at her home. Betty was born on July 19, 1956, in Wichita, KS, the daughter of Raymond and Phyllis (Busch) Gardner. Betty dedicated her life to taking Read Obituary
To the family and friends of Betty Jo,
I am proud to say that I am a family member, not by blood but by love and the graciousness of being a part of the Busch family. My family and the Busch family were in my lives since I can remember. I remember Betty Jo and Becky being in their early 20's if that, calling my mom (Syrina Youngquist) if I could come over and hang out with them, I felt so important hanging out with someone who wasn't actually my sisters and eating sunflower seeds and drinking soda. Yes, Betty Jo and Becky taught Beth and I how to do cartwheels (we were all over that yard). I have always tried to stay in touch with her. After Jackie's funeral she reached out to me and wanted me to apologize to the family she couldn't make it (which I did so). You will always be in my memories and the love you showed me as a child.
Tammy Youngquist
You will be truly missed by so many Momma Betty ♥️ We will miss the way your eye's light up when you laugh and smile. Will miss watching the love you gave to your kid's and grandbabies ♥️ Until we all meet again ♥️ RIP Momma Betty
Love Todd and Melissa Brown
Dear Betty Jo,
As I sit here reflecting on the news of your passing, my heart is heavy with a mix of sorrow and gratitude for the beautiful soul you were. Born on that warm summer day in July 1956 in Wichita, Kansas, to your loving parents Raymond and Phyllis Gardner, you entered this world with a spirit that would touch so many lives over your 69 years. Growing up in the heartland, you embodied the strength and warmth of Kansas—resilient, kind, and always ready to lend a hand. And though your journey led you to Fall River, where you spent your final days peacefully at home on March 14, 2026, your legacy stretches far beyond any one place.
From what I know of you, cousin, you dedicated your life to taking care of others. Whether it was family, friends, or those in need, your nurturing heart was your greatest gift. You had a way of making everyone feel seen and loved, like a gentle breeze on a hot day that brings relief and comfort. I remember the stories of your unwavering devotion, how you’d go out of your way to support those around you, always with a smile and a word of encouragement. In a world that can feel so chaotic, you were a steady anchor, reminding us all of the importance of compassion and family bonds.
As your cousin, I’ve always admired your quiet strength. Even though life threw its challenges your way, you faced them with grace and faith. You taught me, without even trying, that true richness comes from the relationships we build and the love we share. Thinking back on our family gatherings, the laughter we shared, and the quiet moments of connection, I can’t help but smile through the tears. You had this incredible ability to light up a room, to make the ordinary feel special. Whether it was sharing a recipe, offering advice, or just listening, you made people feel valued.
Now, as you rest in eternal peace, I find solace in believing you’re in a place of pure joy, reunited with those who went before you. Heaven must be even brighter with you there, Betty Jo. And while we’re here missing you terribly, I know you’re watching over us with that same loving gaze.
Please, if you can, give my son DaKota a big, warm hug for me up there in Heaven. Tell him how much I love him and how proud I am of the man he became. And wrap my mother and father in your arms too—let them know they’re never far from my thoughts, and that their love still guides me every day. I can picture you all together, sharing stories and laughter, free from pain and full of light.
Your memory will live on in all of us, Betty Jo. We’ll honor you by carrying forward the kindness you showed, by cherishing our families as you did yours. Thank you for being the wonderful cousin, friend, and caregiver you were. Until we meet again, rest easy in God’s embrace.
With all my love,
Beth
To Heather, Shila Groth and Chad Martin my deepest heartfelt condolences and sympathies for this tragic loss.
